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Πέμπτη 9 Μαΐου 2019

...and sometimes we just need to go out and get pissed...



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Όταν μια μητέρα πει ότι είναι κουρασμένη, εννοεί αυτό και μόνο!
*When a mother says she's tired, that's all she meant!
Δεν λέει, ότι θέλει να εγκαταλείψει το παιδί της και να ξεχάσει ότι υπάρχει.
*She did not say she wants to drop her son and forget that he or she exists.
Όταν μια μητέρα πει ότι θέλει να μείνει για λίγο μόνη της, ολομόναχη, 
εννοεί αυτό και μόνο!
*When a mother says she wanted some time alone, just her, 
that's all she meant!
Δεν λέει, ότι μετάνιωσε που έγινε μαμά και ότι η μητρότητα ήταν 
το λάθος της ζωής της.
She didn't say she's sorry to be a mother and that motherhood was 
mistake in her life.
Όταν μια μητέρα πει, ότι χρειάζεται βοήθεια σε κάτι, εννοεί αυτό και μόνο.
*When a mother says she needs help to get things done, that's exactly 

what she meant!
Δεν λέει, ότι είναι ανίκανη.
*She is not saying that she is incapable.
Όταν μια μητέρα τηγανίζει αυγά για βραδινό,αυτό δεν σημαίνει,ότι 
τηγανίζει αυγά κάθε μέρα και ότι τα παιδιά της δεν τρώνε ποτέ κρέας 
και λαχανικά.
*When a mother makes noodles for dinner,it does not mean she does 

noodles every day of the week and that her son/daughter is a child who 
does not know vegetables and meats.
Όταν μπαίνεις στο σπίτι μιας μητέρας και βλέπεις ακαταστασία,αυτό 
δεν σημαίνει, ότι κάθε μέρα το σπίτι της είναι άνω-κάτω.
*When you arrive at a mother's house and face disorganization, 

it doesn't mean that every day that house is disorganized.
Όταν μια μητέρα πει, ότι θα ήθελε να βγει έξω με τις φίλες,
εννοεί αυτό και μόνο! 
Δεν θέλει να γυρίσει πίσω στη ζωή της ως single, χωρίς παιδιά, 
και ότι της άρεσε που τότε δεν είχε καμία ευθύνη.
*When a mother says she'd love to go out with her friends, 
that's all she meant! She doesn't want to go back to being 
"Single / not a mother" and like it as if she had no responsibility.
Όταν μια μητέρα πει, ότι ανησυχεί και φοβάται, εννοεί αυτό και μόνο! 
Δεν λέει, ότι δειλιάζει, σίγουρα όχι ότι είναι "κότα".
*When a mother says she's worried and afraid, that's what she meant! 

She didn't say she's going to falter, and much less she's a coward.
Όταν ακούς μια μητέρα να ουρλιάζει, αυτό δεν σημαίνει ότι είναι μια 
μάνα που μόνο ουρλιάζει, αλλά ότι πιθανότατα έχει ήδη πει κάτι 
300 φορές με φυσιολογικό τόνο φωνής.
*When you listen to a mother screaming,it doesn't mean she 

just screams, probably she has spoken 300 times with normal voice tone.
Όταν βλέπεις μια νευρική μητέρα, στα όρια της παράνοιας,αυτό δεν 
σημαίνει ότι κάθε μέρα είναι σε αυτή την κατάσταση.
*When you see a nervous mother, on the edge of madness, 

doesn't mean every day she's in that situation.
Υπάρχει ένα γενικότερο πλαίσιο από πίσω, μια συνολική κατάσταση.
*There is a whole context, a whole situation.
Μην κατασκευάζετε αναλήθειες για να κρίνετε κάποιον, και κυρίως 
μια γυναίκα που κάθε μέρα, κάθε στιγμή, αφήνει στην άκρη τη δική της 
ζωή για να ζήσει τη ζωή ενός άλλου πλάσματος που ξέρει, ότι είναι πολύ σημαντικότερο από την ίδια.
*Do not invent untruths to judge someone, let alone a woman who 

every day, at all times, gives up her own life to live the life of another 
being that she knows is much more important than her.
Στον κόσμο δεν υπάρχει άλλος άνθρωπος ικανός να θυσιάσει 
και να προσφέρει τόσα όσα η μητέρα!
*In the world there is no human being able to give up and donate 
as much as a mother!
Της αξίζει, λοιπόν, πολύ περισσότερη κατανόηση και πολύ λιγότερη κριτική!
*And they deserve a lot of understanding and fewer trials.
Credit: unknown
το διάβασα εδώ: Charity Beth
https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=2232922670328688&id=100008329306112
Δεν θα μπορούσε να έχει 
γραφτεί καλύτερα 
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Charity Beth, from Pennsylvania, who shares two young sons with partner Vincent Venturo, seen, has pleaded with strangers to be less judgmental in an honest message which hit a note with thousands of parents online
Charity Beth, from Pennsylvania, who shares 
two young sons with partner Vincent Venturo, seen, 
has pleaded with strangers to be less judgmental in 
an honest message which hit a note with thousands 
of parents online
Mother-of-two is praised for her raw open letter detailing the struggles 
of parenthood - as she calls on strangers to be 'more understanding'
*A mother-of-two from Pennsylvania asked strangers to be less 
judgmental 
*Called for them to not make snap judgments if witnessing a mother shout
*Said there was context behind a quick fast food meal or a messy household...[...]
Taking to her Facebook account, she wrote: 'When a mother says she's tired, that's all she meant!
[...]
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6612281/
Mothers-raw-open-letter-detailing-like-parent-goes-viral.html
Εικόνα: Facebook / φιλανθρωπία Beth.
Mum calls for less judgement and more understanding 
in viral Facebook post
~
"Do not invent untruths to judge someone, let alone a woman who 

every day, at all times, gives up her own life to live the life of another 
being that she knows is much more important than her."
Judgement   is everywhere. 
It's even more prevalent now so much of our lives are shared on 
social media.One mum will write a post about the  struggles of being 
a parent and she's bombarded with comments about contraception  
and people educating her 
on the ways she could have prevented children if she didn't want them.
People complain about their jobs all the time without quitting. 
After all, everyone has a bad day from time to time, and we're all entitled 
to vent. It doesn't mean we regret applying for the job, or wish we were unemployed - just as mums who complain aren't confessing they 
regret having kids.
One mum has shared a post to Facebook calling for the judgement to end, 
and asking people to simply understand that expressing frustration isn't necessarily an admission of regret...[...]
Claire Haiek | January 21, 2019
https://www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/parenthood/mums/mum-calls-for-
less-judgement-and-more-understanding-in-viral-facebook-post/news-story/
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